Writing your own wedding vows is one of the most meaningful parts of planning your ceremony, but it can also feel overwhelming. You are trying to capture your deepest feelings, memories, promises, and dreams in just a couple of minutes. No pressure, right?

Don’t worry. We are here to help you find the words.

How long should wedding vows be?

On average, each person’s vows should be around one to two minutes long, which typically comes out to 150 to 250 words.

• A short and sweet version is about one minute long, or 100 to 150 words.
• A more detailed and emotional version is closer to two minutes long, or 200 to 250 words.

Regardless of the length, the most important thing is that your vows sound like you.

A Simple Structure for Writing Your Wedding Vows

Here is a guide to help you write vows that feel structured but still allow your personality and love story to shine through.

1. Start with a Loving Address

Begin with your partner’s name or nickname. Let the words feel intimate.
For example: “Alex, from the moment I met you…”

2. Share a meaningful memory or moment

Think about when you first knew they were the one or a moment that captures your connection.
For example: “I knew you were special when we laughed until we cried watching our favourite movie.”
Another example: “From our first date, I felt at home with you.”

3. Speak to the qualities you love in them

Describe what you admire in your partner. This could be their deep traits or the little things you adore.
For example: “You are kind, patient, hilarious, and endlessly supportive.”
Another example: “I love your strength, your passion, and the way you brighten every room you walk into.”

4. Make your promises

This is the heart of your vows. Include both meaningful and lighthearted promises.
For example: “I vow to stand by your side through all of life’s joys and challenges.”
Another example: “I promise to always make you coffee, even when I’m tired.”

5. Share your hopes for the future

Talk about what you are excited to experience together.
For example: “I can’t wait to grow old with you, to keep laughing at our inside jokes, and to build a life full of adventure and love.”

6. Close with a heartfelt line

End with something strong, emotional, and personal.
For example: “I love you more every day, and I can’t wait to spend forever with you.”
Another example: “This is my solemn vow and the greatest honour of my life.”

Need more help? At Rose Gold Celebrations, we offer personalized vow-writing support as part of our wedding ceremony packages. We are here to help you say what matters most—with clarity, confidence, and heart.