FAQ

Here are the answers to a few frequently asked questions. If there is something you want answered that isn’t here, feel free to contact me.

No. In Quebec, I act as the licensing agent and will obtain information from you in order to complete a form called the DEC-50. I will take care of all filings and paperwork to legalize your marriage. Please note that there needs to be a 20 day posting, indicating the wedding venue, so make sure to leave time to meet this requirement.
Got you with that title, didn’t I? *sneaky me*
We are so used to having kids be the flower girls and ring bearers, but does it have to be this way? Absolutely not! What about ‘Flower Grandmas’? Wouldn’t it be a beautiful way to include your grandparents in your wedding ceremony by having them spread flower petals down the aisle and your grandfathers present the rings? Although I am not blessed to have my grandparents with me anymore, this idea warms my heart.
As a full-time professional officiant, I am fully focussed on the couples who trust me with their day and I dedicate my time to writing their unique story and crafting the memorable ceremony that will be cherished forever.

I devote 100% focus on every wedding I do and make it the best experience possible for everyone.

My services cost $750, which includes the initial phone consultation, a 90-minute planning meeting approximately two months before your wedding, ceremony editing to your liking, the publication of the marriage notice, the Ceremony, the registration of marriage or civil union declarations and my expertise and support at all times.

There may be additional charges depending on the distance required to travel to your celebration location and / or the addition of extra services not mentioned above.
I advise couples to budget approximately thirty minutes for the ceremony, including the entrance, ceremony, signing of the documents and recessional. Of course, the length will depend on the script and any creative additions such as a unity ceremony.
No. Although your guests can join via any video platform, a couple must be in the same location as their officiant and witnesses, during the ceremony and signing of the legal documents for a legal marriage.
I will travel to the location of your choice. I am happy to marry you at your home or cottage, in a banquet hall or a hotel. The ceremony can take place almost anywhere your heart imagines, as long as the location is accessible to the public and has a civic address in the province of Quebec.

Yes. IF, in the most unlikely of circumstances, something were to happen to me and I am unable to perform your wedding, you will be married on your day by one of my wonderful colleagues.

I wear a simple black business dress in order to blend into the background. Should you have a theme and would like me to participate, I am happy to do so and we can discuss this during our first call.
That’s very sweet, but no, I do not stay for dinner. After the ceremony, I provide you with your copy of the DEC-50, pack up, wish you the best and leave you to celebrate with family and friends.

No, but you may feel you would like to express your gratitude for an excellent ceremony in this way, which is very much appreciated.

The best “thank you” of all is to leave a Google Review for me, and refer a friend. Some couples do all of the above.
Every wedding is different and some months are busier than others. I suggest you book just as soon as you have your venue reserved. Besides, you need me there to make it official in order to enjoy all the celebrations that will follow the ceremony! Please contact me to check my availability.
Although tradition, some moms, and bridal books say to have one, a rehearsal is not always necessary. You should walk through the ceremony with your wedding party, however my presence is not needed as we do not rehearse the actual ceremony and vows. It really depends on the place and size of your wedding and your own comfort level. There is an additional fee for a rehearsal (~$150 depending on location and duration).
Yes! I am happy to perform vow renewals and would be more than happy to help you celebrate your milestone anniversary.
Yes. There are no residency requirements for getting married in Quebec.
That depends on the province you live in. Quebec residents, regardless of which province they are married in, are unable to assume their spouse’s last name.
Of course! At Rose Gold Celebrations, we celebrate love and we do not differentiate between heterosexual, same-sex, or LGBTQIA2S+ weddings. I would be honoured to officiate this momentous event for you.

Writing your own vows can seem like a daunting task. Where to begin… what to say… how much or how little… how long or how short… The answer is… it’s entirely up to you! *wink*

Now I know that was no help at all, so here are a few questions that could help get the creative juices flowing.

Answer your favourites out of these, and write out the answers in a flowing and meaningful vow:

  • Why is he/she the love of your life?
  • What can you promise him/her?
  • How can you lift him/her up when they are feeling down?
  • Why does he/she make you laugh?
  • How did you feel the first time you met him/her?
  • How do you complement each other?
  • Why can’t you live without him/her?
  • Why did you choose him/her?
  • What does marriage mean to you?
  • How will you inspire him/her during your marriage?
  • What has he/she taught you?
  • What’s your favourite thing the two of you have done together?
  • How has he/she changed you for the better?
  • What do you miss about him/her when he/she isn’t around?
  • What obstacles have you overcome together? What do you wish for your future?

I actually recommend that you do not try to memorize your vows.

With the emotions and stress of the day, it’s best to read them from a vow book or paper (not your cell phone), or you can repeat after me.